What possesses a man in his Forties to leave the land of his childhood, the region of his roots, with arguably perfect weather, to a completely different climate, landscape, and culture. Why would he leave all that is familiar and comfortable for what he knows is going to be so vastly different from everything he has ever experienced? Is he crazy?
So why would I leave my parents and siblings in the glorious Southeastern United States with its mountains, plains, lakes, rivers, waterfalls and splendid weather? For What? What makes Northern Indiana so attractive to a man from the south? Don't people from the Northern United States work their whole lives to be able to retire South? Here the lakes are small and crowded. The water's too cold to enjoy swimming except in July. The wind NEVER stops blowing. The only waterfall is a dam on the local reservoir. The hiking trails are manicured. There are no wild places. Why have I moved here? Have I lost my mind?
Motivation is a funny thing. It's flavors and colors are many but at it's core there are only a few things that compel us to act in ways that seem counter to all that is reasonable, sensible and prudent. Fear, Money, Dissatisfaction, Calling, Love, Desire, the whole range of human emotion can focus our energy strongly enough to get us moving, but, any one of these may not be enough by itself . Fear can cause inaction. Dissatisfaction often only results in grumbling. We try to deny our callings. Love seems to be the only one of these compelling factors that needs no assistance. The right combination of these motivations will overcome reason and common sense every time. The direction they point becomes reason and common sense.
No. I haven't lost my mind. My decision, I should say our decision, was the perfectly reasonable, common sense thing to do. You see, there are factors much deeper and more compelling than the merely external world of weather and landscape: Emotions- love, desire, dissatisfaction, hope; tangibles- money, family (my wife's parents), the "perfect" job.
What is motivating you? Love? Fear? Pain? Desire? Are you following a calling? I'd love to read your story. Share your story in the comment section.
